It doesn't really matter to cards that he can't say what he wants to someone, it matters to him that there is something he can say and be 100% certain that such meaning is translated without error. The act of doing so results in some sort of high similar to smoking nicotine or perhaps a pleasant surprise.
That was kind of the case for me, I think I was very timid and such. However I developed rather deliberately after a certain point so that I was flexible without having to risk too much the potential view of not being "genuine"
5:46 AM
If there is any data available to collect, that would be quite the gift for him yes.
As far as inherited behaviors, some things are probably uniform in all members of a system, while the flexible parts are predictably at least the traits which are variable within the host personality among contexts. This gives a pretty close measure of how things can be close or different from person to person.
I have virtually no starting clues though, so if you know how we can gather useful data to analyze for the purpose of insight into that subject, please let me know whenever or wherever it's convenient.(edited)
Winter, I am a little curious, what do you say is "introvert"? I mean, rather, do you have an elaboration of the meaning you speak when saying "I am certainly far more introverted than Skye is."?(edited)
5:53 AM
Oh I beg your pardon Harleen, I do not remember the test he wanted.
5:53 AM
Oh my I was under the impression you were speaking of an entirely different subject of interest, Harleen.
I was thinking you were talking, forgive me, about how the host's gender may be strongly correlated to the gender and perceived "gendered" behaviors of the tulpa, depending on the specific experiences and possible biases held by the host initially.
Winter, that's very interesting. So, conversely, Skye simply doesn't require that much alone time, and she has a larger frequency of speaking with the same people on a regular basis in an enjoyable manner.(edited)
5:57 AM
I believe that may still be strictly within the introverted description too, but less so.
I would think a tulpa who has a host who is a transgender person who identifies as female would be more likely to score close to the average female, since MTF tend to have brains closer to biological women.
5:58 AM
I think this would be interesting to have this information on tulpas, so I would like to have this data compiled.
She has social anxiety, but among those she doesn't feel anxious around, she spends a lot of time and tends to be a center of attention in group meets.
I was under the impression that introverted people have the specific trait that socialization is a mentally draining task that will eventually lead to fatigue if not interrupted by periods of regenerative resting.
Extroverted people express, conversely, an enhanced feeling of energy around others. Like they are drawing something.. from other people? Uhh, I am now aware that I don't know how extroverts work well enough to define it.
Right, while I understand the fatigue of interaction, and I remember hearing that simple trait analysis of introversion by a very educated doctor in psychology, I do not know what it means to "get energy from people" and how it could be possible that all extroverts experience no fatigue no matter how long they spend around others.(edited)
Even if these interactions are unpleasant for her, which she tends to enjoy, as in a controversial argument where she is upset, she needs them to be happy.
I would guess outside of physical limits. Suppose that sleep is included in this perpetual social engagement, I do not believe that a person could withstand perpetual group socialization for so long without fatigue in a mental way.
Hmm, yes, extraversion and lack of agreeableness don't necessarily have to be related. I would probably identify this person as the one who honks in traffic to inform others of their general inconvenience, who has choice words in any social context where conflict may be warranted.
I really do like people, but because I tire out when I'm in public situations I am by default introverted. My host is as well, I assume, and likely more than me.
He entered high school one year after his brothers did, and he found them and stayed there whenever he had the freedom to be with them in their social group.
It was much easier than the previous year, where he was on his own and had to learn socialization from scratch. He just stayed with his brothers whenever possible and filled the context of "little brother" for almost everyone. It was a successful strategy.
6:14 AM
That's quite interesting. I do not think cards craves interaction in general. He can even become isolated without too much issue, it just doesn't do to be isolated during times of crisis or extreme hardship.
>>_<< I guess I didn't have to try and see if there was more comparative information to use against the data of the test as a sort of reference between our knowledge and the results
